Thursday, October 22, 2009

Cruel twist of fate

Mom is doing just fine. They had a doctor's appointment here in Dallas on Columbus Day; we had taken that opportunity to take an extended weekend (we both took Friday off) to fly to NYC to see the boys, so we missed them all around!

When I called Mom, she indicated the appointment had gone well but she wished it had gone better. The doctor is changing therapy again, but says she is improving; just not as fast as Mom wants to improve. They have another appointment in December; so they will be here in November for Thanksgiving, December for appointments, and late December for Christmas! We are excited to have them back!

However, other news is not so good. Pam's mom (we moved them here from Midland in 2008) has been feeling ill for the past 2-3 weeks, and has been getting more and more feeble and had more dementia problems in the past six months. On Monday, Pam went to see her and she had not eaten in 2 days; she was too weak to get to the car, so they called the ambulance. After many tests, they told the family yesterday that she had late stage pancreatic cancer; the prognosis was three months at the most. However, they are checking her out of the hospital tonight to go directly into hospice. We think it may be more like three weeks...

We are flying the grandsons home tomorrow; we hope they make it in time.

Please keep us and especially Pam's father Arnold Adams and brother Mike in your thoughts and prayers. They are devastated and she seems to be failing fast.

2 comments:

kountry kid said...

Pam and Rick; Just pulled up the sad news concerning your loved one.
How devastating that horrible disease can be!!! So sorry this has happened and I pray her suffering will be minimal!! You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless You All---I Love You,---Floyd E.---

kountry kid said...

We are so saddened to hear the news of your Mother's illness, Pam. Although I don't personally know her, I remember well the devastation & hearache at the loss of a beloved parent. During these times, we have to trust the Lord to give us the strength we need to get through. He is with you, and may that knowledge help give some peace to your hearts. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Nelda & Bob